Emotional Basket Case

If you've been following along with my story, you know I recently got a full mouth of dentures. This process has been less then satisfying. I haven't wore them like I should. As a matter of fact, I really haven't worn them. Today's been the longest which has been six hours so far. I'm trying to keep them in until the adhesive gives.

At this point, most of the pain is gone. I was having bad pain with just placing them in my mouth. But I had an adjustment done yesterday. They feel a lot better. Although I think I may need to go back because I think they need to be adjusted again.

I'm not really sure how to feel about this. I want to look like myself again. But I feel I look different. Like weird, different. I was hoping for so much and I'm scared that I may be disappointed in the end. At this time, I really can't eat with them in.... and that's a shame because it's one of the reasons why I needed to get them. Even soft foods are difficult. In all honesty, it's really hard eating food you can't feel on the roof of your mouth. Drinking liquids aren't so hard. I've pretty much mastered that.

So, anyone with dentures....I have a question... How can I begin eating foods I love? I wanna eat a steak.. but have no idea how I'm going to get there.

Wordpress vs Blogger

It came to my attention that on Blogger, a blog can be disabled at anytime. I don't like the idea of this. So, I decided to check out Wordpress to see if it was an option for me. As I was looking through Wordpress, I came to the conclusion that it seems very confusing.

I imported one of my blogs from blogger to wordpress. It seems just the titles were imported. Therefore, in order to get each of my posts on word press... I'd have to manually transfer them. Then, I came up to a situation where I have a home video posted on Blogger. Wordpress won't let free accounts to add video's. This is a bummer.

So, all you wordpress users out there.... can you give me some tips for a new wordpress user? I'd love to have a nice background and fonts... but this too looks to be only for those who pay. :-/

Perhaps someone can help me out here and tell me some tips on making this easier. I don't want to loose my blog. Therefore, I'd love to make my own rules by purchasing my own domain and what-not after the holidays.

Ok... get those idea's coming... I'm feeling very over-whelmed here.

Fun things to do while it's raining

As I was sitting this morning drinking my coffee and looking out the window, I began to think. It's been raining here for almost a week. The ground is muddy and the air is damp. Not a good mixture to go out and play in. So, I began to think of some fun things to do around my house with my daughter. Here's the list I came up with:


1.) Cuddle up on the couch and watch your child's favorite show. (This always leaves the memories warm and fuzzy when looking back at them.)

2.) Create something with various objects throughout your house. (We made butterfly's using clothespins, coffee filters, glue, and markers. Since her room is done as a garden, these added in perfectly.)

3.) Play a game. (Games are always a way to make everyone laugh, regardless of the age.)

4.) Bath the dog. (This not only is fun for a young child but the dog enjoys a clean bath too. Everyone wins here.It also teaches responsbility early.)


I still have a lot more idea's to go about doing. But seeing how it's 11 in the morning, and we already did the top four, I will have to add more to my list once we do them. All I can say is that it doesn't matter what my daughter and I do, I just enjoy spending time with her. Watching a child laugh is one of the best sounds/scenes in this world.

How to Transform Your Problem Child

By Lillian Downey on January 5, 2011

Working with your child's behavior can improve your relationship.

Parenting is difficult under any circumstances, but when your child has behavioral problems, you might dread each each day and doubt your abilities as a parent. The good news is that most child behavioral problems can be dealt with and improved at home once you know what you're dealing with and how to respond appropriately. Time, patience and a commitment to changing your own behaviors as well can improve your home situation and your child's school performance and social interactions.

Step 1

Have your child evaluated for conditions like attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), learning disabilities, developmental delays and even food allergies. If your child suffers from a condition that makes it difficult for him to learn, concentrate, sit still or feel well, he's likely to respond by acting out.

Step 2

Get you and your child on a set schedule and follow it each day. A schedule will provide structure a child can come to rely on. It also helps her feel more in control and secure. Have regular meal times, homework time, bath time, bed time and wake-up time to start. Develop morning and evening routines.

Step 3

Reward good behavior more often than you discipline negative behaviors. When your child follows the schedule or displays good behavior, lavish him with praise. Praise doesn't have to include rewards. Kind words, hugs and encouragement help your child feel good about himself and make him more likely to repeat the good behavior. Use stickers, reward charts, outings and other rewards as incentives for your child to tackle tasks he usually has difficulty completing.

Step 4

Discipline your child appropriately. Explain to your child why his behavior isn't appropriate and explain what will happen if he continues it. If the child doesn't listen to your warning, follow through with an age-appropriate punishment, like one minute in time-out per year of age or a loss of special privileges. Don't show anger or frustration when you discipline. Remain calm and in control. After the punishment, talk to your child about why she was disciplined.

Step 5

Distract your child or redirect her attention elsewhere if you see the potential for a problem behavior. You won't always be able to intervene before a problem arises, but this technique also helps keep a small problem from escalating into a crisis.

Step 6

Take time for yourself. When you're well-rested and refreshed, you have more patience and energy to devote to your child. Find a caregiver you trust and enjoy a little kid-free, adult time each week. Use this time to have fun and peruse your interests, not to grocery shop or run errands.