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Thursday, June 23, 2011

One of The Biggest Things I Hate

I do a lot of reading. Both on my Nook Color and on the Internet. Most of the things I read pertain to parenting and relationships. As I was looking around on the net today, I came across some personal blogs within blogger and other various blogging websites that truely ticked me off. Non-parents giving parenting advice. This just rubbes me the way wrong way and instantly pisses me off.

So, this blog is dedicated to all those "mom wanna-bes". First and foremost, I would like to ask you to just shut the hell up. I don't wanna hear about "if I was his/her mother, I'd do..." Because in the brute reality of it, your not their mother and by not being a mother... you have no freaking clue what you would do. I can honestly say that when I was pregnant, I said several things that started out as, "Oh, my child will NEVER" and ended up doing the complete opposite.

Second, you have no clue what it's like to be an actual parent... even as a step-parent... I feel it's different. Because when it comes to your "step-child" you still have limitations on how you can react in certain situations compared to those who have full control over their child.

Third, don't voice your opinion on my parenting styles or anyone elses for that matter. You can NOT actually be bitching about how I raise my child or how anyone else raises their child. You didn't lay in the hospital, pushing and contracting, in order to bring the child into this world.

Fourth, dont go onto social websites complaining about how you feel parents suck these days. NEWS FLASH.... your not an effin parent therefore what you have to say about someone's  child or their parenting style.... doesn't matter. You don't know what it's really like to be a parent until you carry and give birth.

So, in conclusion, keep all parenting thoughts to yourself until you give birth to your own child! Parenting in itself is a entirely different world then the "what if's and If I was their parent." Now, have a wonderful day.

A mother to a beautiful little girl!

1 comment:

  1. This is so true. I just wish that people would shut their mouths about the way others raise their kids. If you wanna raise your kid one way then that is your perogitive. I love you baby.


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